Lose a friend ... but no sweet talk
The more that i continue to live in the Corporate world, the more I see people who are not capable of saying things straight from the heart. People these days overly criticise only cos they want to do it (read office colleagues and the like). Worse still is the fact that most of this happens behind your back, so you never get to really know this until a friend of yours who has heard the story, brings it up to you.
Amongst friends, its very uncommon these days to honestly criticise a person. No one wants to be the Bad Guy, every one speaks sweet stuff when you are around, but talk horifically about you when u aint. Well my philosophy in life is totally different, I talk my heart out, tell people what I think is right .. I may be wrong but atleast I dont have the guilt of not telling someone what I feel is right.
I encourage one and all to accept this as a philosophy, never mind loosing a friend, its sure easier than having a put on relationship with someone who is faltering.
Happy Thinking ;)
Amongst friends, its very uncommon these days to honestly criticise a person. No one wants to be the Bad Guy, every one speaks sweet stuff when you are around, but talk horifically about you when u aint. Well my philosophy in life is totally different, I talk my heart out, tell people what I think is right .. I may be wrong but atleast I dont have the guilt of not telling someone what I feel is right.
I encourage one and all to accept this as a philosophy, never mind loosing a friend, its sure easier than having a put on relationship with someone who is faltering.
Happy Thinking ;)